Well, it’s December next week, and that makes me happy. And no, it has absolutely nothing to do with christmas or anything like that (though I’ll admit that I’m looking forward to christmas day because Doctor Who’s on). It makes me happy because it means that this year’s almost over.
Welcoming December
On a personal level a big chunk of this year has been a stinker. In March my four year relationship came to an unexpected and abrupt end (this actually turned out to be a good thing), and I’ve certainly found out who my friends are – that’s been a surprising lesson to learn. As a result I’ve spent far too much time this year being disappointed or cross or both. The sad thing is that a considerable chunk of that has been with people who I thought were friends. I have certainly lived and learned.
Thankfully it’s not all been bad. On a professional level things have gone great. I’ve been writing well and frequently and I’ve a good number of exciting things to look forward to.
And that’s my point. It’s good to have things to look forward to. Like next year. And as we approach December it feels like, finally, I’m almost there, and in a better position to deal with all it will have to offer.
Glad to hear you are feeling so positive! Big life changes can often be hard (especially when we are not the ones initiating them) but, ya know, silver linings and all…
Sad to hear of your troubles, Nik, but they always pass and often help to make you stronger, wiser. I know: I'm an expert!If you get the chance join the new blog we've set up for Poetry @ Reddits here in Grahamstown: http://web.me.com/roddyfox/PoetryatRedditsIt would be great to have you contribute.Harry
hurray for the start of a new year, and new possibilities…
Thank you for this uplifting post, Nik. 2009 was a hell of a year for lots of people I know (including myself) but it's good to pause and reflect, and to take time to be positive about the changes. I'm very glad you're able to do this, and it prompted me to do the same, so thank you.
Go! Fight! Win! xo
As someone else who'll be very glad to see the back of this year – I couldn't agree more.
Glad things are going better for you – and hope next year is just stunningly good! Axxx
Thnigs will get better and better – here's to a great 2010 for you! 🙂
Thanks everybody. And best wishes to you all too. I know I'm not the only one who's had a bit of a tough time this year – it's been rotten for far too many nice people. Here's to a wonderful 2010 – and it's nearly here, innit!Nik
I think in some way or another it's been a pretty crap year for most people. My friend ended a relationship at the start of this year and now she's happily with another, so living proof you can turn your life around.You are such a positive fella that good things are bound to happen to you and hopefully 2010 is your year!And yes Dr Who on Christmas Day – highlight of my social calendar!